“Talking with a child about the death of a loved one is something many of us dread,” writes O’Connell-Cahill. “We don’t want to see our child in pain and grief. We fear saying the wrong thing.” This helpful CareNote offers guidance in this difficult situation, giving the reader practical advice and caring thoughts to consider. Sections include: “Be honest”; “Reassure your child, and answer your child’s questions”; Accept your child’s emotional response, whatever it is”; “Encourage your child to participate in the visitation and the funeral service”; and “Help your child deal with the lingering effects of grief.”

By Cathy O’Connell-Cahill