By Victoria Ryan and Illustrated by R.W. Alley. Losing a grandparent is often a child’s first experience of grief and, as such, it can be very bewildering and painful. Let the elves in this CareNote gently take the hand of your child to lead him or her through the grief experience. Explaining what happens from a child’s-eye view, the booklet covers the difficult days before, after, and beyond a grandparent’s death.