“The manner in which a loved one dies will certainly influence how we grieve, but the death of a teenager brings added heartache,” writes author Ralph P. Plumley. Parents are devastated by the reality of having to bury their child, instead of the other way around. Friends may begin to question that feeling of invincibility that many teens seem to possess. Those enduring the loss of a teen, whether sudden or expected, have a long road to healing. In this CareNote, Plumley helps those making the journey with sections titled: “Grief is our natural reaction to a loss,” “Seek out an experienced guide,” and “Find ways to memorialize and honor your teen loved one.”

By Ralph P. Plumley