How to Help Someone
Who Is Grieving
Catholic Perspectives

In the course of her studies, author and thanatologist Judy Esway observed that “we are a death-denying society.” The discomfort surrounding the subject of death can lead truly well-intentioned people to allow a friend or family member’s grief go unacknowledged. In this booklet, Esway reminds readers that their presence and willingness to listen are among the most valuable gifts of comfort you can give to someone who is grieving. She outlines the do’s and don’ts of offering care in sections titled: Unhelpful comments, Helpful comments, and Listen to the story.

By Judy Esway